this is an exchange society. i never believe in the theories on how fights and quarrels help strengthen a relationship. it's bullshit. one minute of fight do more harm than losing contact for more than a term. just avoid it. and please, never think that people close to you could tolerate more shit so you could just give them more shit. and NEVER say you understand someone just because maybe you really did, but don't expect people to stay the same. just some random thoughts.