i've always been against divorce and breakups because i thought, or rather have stupidly assumed, that everyone out there is self monitoring. i thought humans are angels. i've always lived by 'if you're having problems, you probably aint trying hard enough'. but when i reealised that there are indeed people, who i thought didnt exist, who are absolutely self serving, divorce and breakups may be the best way out. they are pulling each other down, and dragging others along with them as well. relationships like those destructive.

the pitiful ones aint them, but the ones that they dragged down.

though i've never been married, i've been through multiple cracks, a divorce, more cracks and i'm about to go through my second divorce. it just makes me doubt this whole people-love-each-other-shit even more. love is nothing but just an excuse for companionship and comfort. when the reliance and the dependence's no longer what the other party is looking for, you tell me where'd love gone to.

it's going to be easy for me. i just hope she makes it through.

things will still work out fine with just the right people. i'm still holding on to my last bit of faith.
where's light. light is always there. all you have to is to search within.
life at cross roads
you'll guide yourself to what you deem is right.

and i'll go on to treasure every life's turning point.